There is nothing but transient complacency that you can gain out of eliciting pitiful feelings and sympathy and saying I 'm not good enough but that's who I am. Rather kick your own ass out of excuses. Being you is not a problem..Letting yourself be the sorry you is the problem. People will be 'sorry' when you are no one but you would still be no one. Remember.. the fit survive.. the unfit perish. --anonymous